Meeting Mr. Right

Meeting Mr. Right can be a long bumpy journey! There's nothing sexist or insincere about having to narrow down your dating prospects. To avoid any hurt feelings, avoid committing yourself or spending long periods of time with one person. This is an important decision and it should not be treated lightly, as the "winner" of this contest could very well be the love of your life!

How can you decide if a person is right for you? To some extent, the old expression "you just know" applies here. Usually, one person will stand above the others and be highly compatible with you. You will have a strong emotional reaction when you think about this person, a feeling far beyond just attraction. You will be motivated by love when you interact with this person. The effect of the relationship will be a very positive one and you will find yourself longing for that person's company.

If you have serious doubts about the person you are dating this may or may not be a sign of trouble. In the meantime, it may help to start writing about the person you are interested in, as this will let you think freely about their best positives and worst negatives. In addition, try taking a few personality tests that are available online or create a personality test on your own. Create both fantastic and realistic scenarios and ask yourself of all the dating prospects you know, who would be your most preferred choice? For example...

    * Who would you most like to take to meet your parents?

    * Who would be willing to duel for if you lived in The Medieval Ages?

    * Who could you most see starting a family with?

    * Who best shares your sense of humor?

    * With whom can you speak the most honestly?

    * Who would you prefer to be stranded with on a desert island?

    * Who do you tend to argue with the most?

    * Who do you fear losing the most?

You can have as much fun with this as you desire, as naughty or nice as you would have it. By the end of the experiment though, you will start to notice a pattern: the one you like or love most will likely dominate most of the questions, especially the scenarios that involve deep emotions.

By now you understand a little more about love and what you're looking for in a romantic partner. However, there is still more information to consider - namely, the role that the law of attraction plays in building a relationship. Meeting Mr. Right may take patience but the reward is sweet!